About Author
Me ... Well I’m tiny, honestly. I stand about 4”11 with blonde hair and green/gold/blue eyes. I’m thin, but I do have some meat on my bones. I'm 28, from Edmonton Alberta, Canada...Bloody Cold here in the Winter >_> I was born in Vancouver BC -- though I haven't lived there since 2006. I paint, I write, I sing...but my passion is dancing. I’ve been dancing since I was old enough to walk and I’m dying to get back into it again. I also fight Rapier in the SCA. There's something so empowering about fighting with a sword. I have changed so much over the years. I have gone from a weak person with no hope for a actual good life. To a strong person who knows herself and is willing to follow and accomplish her goals no matter how many hard knocks life decides to give. I have been through trauma, heartache, happiness and sorrow and come out on top. I know who I am now. I have no reason to hide. Artist/writer,punky-goth -- girl/boy--depends on my mood. I write stories, draw fanart and make icons. I'm Genderqueer/Gender Fluid, engaged to a wonderful man and gender queer. At first I thought I was transgendered, then I realized that I'm just gender queer as I feel comfortable as either sex and switch it up all the time. Some may call it cross dressing, I call it a way of life. I owe a lot to my friends, they were the ones that were able to help me out of an abusive relationship and help me realize that being genderqueer and sometimes male is okay and there's nothing to be ashamed of. To all of you. Thank You. Genderqueer (GQ; alternatively non-binary) is a catch-all term for gender identities other than man and woman, thus outside of the gender binary and heteronormativity.[1] People who identify as genderqueer may think of themselves as one or more of the following: both man and woman neither man nor woman (genderless, agender) moving between genders (gender fluid)[2] third gendered or other-gendered; includes those who do not place a name to their gender[3] having an overlap of, or blurred lines between, gender identity and sexual orientation[4][5] Some genderqueer people[6][7] also identify as transgender, and may or may not wish for physical modification or hormones to suit their preferred expression. Many genderqueer people see gender and sex as separable aspects of a person and sometimes identify as a male woman, a female man, or a male/female/intersex genderqueer person.[8] Gender identity is defined as one's internal sense of being male, female, both, or neither, while sexual identity refers to an individual's enduring physical, romantic, and/or emotional attraction to others.[9] As such, genderqueer people may be a variety of sexual orientations, as with transgender and cisgender people. Genderqueer identification may also occur for political reasons.[10][11] "Genderqueer", in addition to being an umbrella term, has been used as an adjective to refer to any people who transgress distinctions of gender, regardless of their self-defined gender identity, i.e. those who "queer" gender, expressing it non-normatively.[12] Androgynous is frequently used as a descriptive term for people in this category, though genderqueer people may express a combination of masculinity and femininity, or neither, in their gender expression and not all identify as androgynes. However, the term has been applied by those describing what they see as a gender ambiguity